It is hard to imagine the Thai nightlife ambiance without allure of hard working and attractively dressed "tough ladies". At night, you can't miss them around entertainment spots all over Thailand, and especially, in Bangkok and Pattaya. They are an integral part of Thai nightlife entertainment environment. Some girls are very young, some women are over 30, the majority are ladies at 20 to 25. They do what tough ladies have done since the beginning of time, but in Thailand they are distinctly different. In the western sense, they are more of the courtesans rather than prostitutes per se. A fact that a lot of foreigners marry with tough ladies speaks for itself. They ain't even called prostitutes, the name is Lady Bar or Bar-Girls. All in all, the girls are free from pimps at face value, and while keeping a degree of modesty, they run their own affair of sinless temptations, embracing a time-tested slogan:
"If you do (what you) love the money will follow."

Case in point – what it takes to succeed (Thai style).

In most cases, the girls work as dancers, entertainers or hostesses in bars, massage parlours and the like, providing for holiday-makers a special kind hospitality service, Thailand is renowned for. Worthy of notice that almost every bar has a so called mama-san, who ladies regard as an elder sister. Mama-san helps her babes to entice customers and succeed in the pay for pleasure industry. Bear in mind, most of bar dancers can't speak too much English. When one takes a girl out, he must first pay a bar fine, later on, pay the girl as agreed. Elite seasoned girls often act as freelance stalkers 'fishing' for wealthy clients in the Hotspots of Bangkok, Pattaya and other Thai resorts. By all odds, Thai ladies have their own intuitively marvelous ways to man's heart. That's why in Thailand foreigners young or aged alike are rarely seen unattended by the local folks irrespective of their sexuality (read on).

A myriad of romantic souls are curiously intrigued by the so called Thailand sex tours or sexual vacations. No wonder, a cheerful attitude, beauty and sex appeal of Thai women with black silky hair, exotic asian eyes and firm sexy bodies that stimulates men sexual desire is well-known the world over. See for yourself some photos of Sexy Thai Girls, or visit Thai Ladies page for an abstract introduction and more pics of so exotic, lovely and flamboyant, stunning Thai beauties. There have been cases that sexy girls manage to get a sound financial support from their boy friends, who in the meantime went back home, and sending money from abroad believing in their girls... many ladies and lots of stories about 'Material Girl', romance and intrigue.

People have been doing stupid things in search of pleasure since the get-go.

As tolerant as by far and large Thai public is, Thai people realize that it's all but 'easy money', yet disapprove of bargirls, as the society norms are based on a high regard for family values, particularly between parents and children. Albeit that fact, Thais are rather easygoing of an ancient habit, when a vigour man, who's able to afford, possesses mia noi, a second wife in Thai. Not only a status of Thai men and women is unequal de jure, but the society is also fractioned socially and people are judged by rich and poor, ones who do have and those that have not. While laziness and a lack of work ethics playing their sadly part, the major cause for the young Thai girls to fetch up as bar babes is a deprivation. In the root, poverty and deficient education are the key factors that coercing a needy upcountry girl into a life of prostitution.

Young Girl in Traditional Northern Thai Dress

The ways of the wild.

Government officials, to say the least, tend to turn a 'blind eye' attitude to the emergence of Tough Ladies, being aware of the economic contributions the tourist industry brings about, and following the Golden Rule: "He, who has the gold, makes the rules."
A magnitude of Tough Ladies is quite pitiable for the Thai politicians, often called here Politico, themselves infamous for the playboy behavior. Unable to deal with socio-economic roots of this massive social illness, their rhetoric is blatantly regretful, especially whenever the issue gets out of (their) hands into a spotlight of a global media reaching an international attention.

A fact of the matter is that mainly in the northeastern provinces poor families with 10–12 or even more kids are strained to "sell" some of them in order to support, educate and feed the rest. Some even deem to believe that these children would have a better life away from the deprived family. Lots of abused girls upon found pregnant are thrown out of school. Most such girls are bumped into working in bars as there is nothing better for them to do. With the money earned, most girls support their needy upcountry family who's taking care of unparented children while Tough Ladies at work. Admittedly or not, many more sexy girls take on the same path simply because it is much more profitable. Cases where livelihood takes precedence over virtue.

"The new government's crackdown on crime includes enforcing closing time regulations in the nitery entertainment areas - 2 a.m. for gin mills, 30 minutes later for constellations (after hours meeting places). How long this will last is anybody's guess, yet there's no surcease in bakshish. Oh, well."   "A case of manure (huMAN natURE)."             - Bernard Trink a.k.a. Bangkok's Nite Owl -     "A NEW BROOM SWEEPS CLEAN"   (- folktale -) To sweep away country's image of a sex tourism destination, a new Thai government has launched a clampdown, ordering bars, clubs and other night entertainment venues to close at 2 a.m. The result of the early closing have been well noticed on Bangkok's leading streets and walkways, as it lured 'tough ladies' out strolling around afterward.

Busty Beauties in Massage Parlour

Transvestism and transgender is constantly gaining the hefty popularity in Thailand. In addition to the numerous nightclubs, theatres and cabarets transexuals are working at, they are also frequent to the common bars, discos and other popular nightlife Tourist Hotspots primarily in the red-light districts of Bangkok and Pattaya. And regardless of (un)natural beauty, high in stature and lofty in style, illustriously called 'shemale' ladies, they look even more attractive, erotic and feminine than most of pretty and fashionably attired girls. After all, it isn't easy to see whoever that person might be. Therefore, it is just a little wonder that ambitious and oblivious male tourists oftentimes have been taken advantage of.

Beware!
It isn't unusual, once in a while, to get caught in a situation just as weird as it might be. Worse yet, if you're unaware and can't get rid of it.

Apropos, I should also notice a rather tangible and vivid Thai gay community, especially in Bangkok. But since a lack (for the good or bad) of the firsthand knowledge in that particular aspect of Thai nightlife, would just mention that there are plenty of prominent gay bars, pubs, discos, conspicuous bisexual night clubs, and even special beach spots (e.g. in Pattaya the far northern part of Jomtien beach), where festive foreign guests, by and large European holiday-makers are hanging out, socializing with the happy locals.

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Ladyboy called katoey in Thai

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